A very random post indeed, but what to do i just thought of it while washing toilet, yes very random again i know, i'm just kinda being too random for my own good this days but oh well, let's go on with the post..
Have u ever thought that, what you thought as an important thing in life was actually not important or its just something that not worth to be said the most important??
Money
Yes people, i know, who don't know that money is important, you'll often hear people around you saying, with money u can buy anything and everything. I'll disagree if you say money is not one bit important, because at this kinda era, who don't know that money rules the world seriously?? But I've seen cases where money break a family bond, money causing other people to lose their family members? So why money is still so important?? There are people who said I won't do the exact same thing as what the tv show did for money, but when your mind starts to think that money is everything, money helps you get what you need, believe you me, you will do the exact same thing even if it cause one of your family members life. So, is money so important to you till the point you'll do anything for it??
Love
I've seen cases where love break a certain person, some even cause their own life sometimes. To me, love is important,without it, you'll never experience alot of different kind of bonds in life. I'll take a very normal example, having to break up with the love of your life. There are cases where one commit suicide or maybe cause a mess to his/her life just because he/she thinks that, without the other half, life is just meaningless. But have you ever heard that, nothing comes out by force, what is yours even after passing 15 years, it will still be yours (just like my parents), so why do something stupid just because you think that he/she is that so important to you?? Believe in fate people~~
Jealousy
This will only occur when you have the thought of importance. there are cases where couples break off because of friends, football games, clubbing and stuff like that. That can be easily solved, because what you think is important is not what the other party thinks is important. This is how jealousy comes off. Often we hear people say, I feel that my bf is treating his friends better than treating me who is his own gf, and that is a sign that your hesitant of his importance in life, isn't it? So what is important to you, your gf or your some other thing or you just don't pay enough attention for both sides, friends and gf?? Balance up your time so both parties can feel their importance in you.
To me what IS most important in life is to cherish the time you have now, your health, and most important you yourself. You won't know what will happen in the future, so why making blunt statements like "its important to me, so just let me do it" while not knowing how to cherish what you have now?? i don't object that sometimes what you think as important is not important, but measure and think carefully, is "what you think as important" will lead you a happier life, or cherishing all the happy moments and really give a second thought what IS important at this utmost moment??
P/S: its a weird post so you can just ignore it lol, i'm just being random this days haha~~
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