Thursday, December 24, 2009

honoring ur parents

have i ever said get to care for ur parents is the biggest honor u can ever found??

Bak few weeks before the exam, i was in the hospital for a few things. And as i was there, i saw a girl who looks older than me by a few years 24/7 on the laptop. i was thinking it might be that she has some working project not done. But.. after a while her mother went home lefting her father there on the sick bed. He couldn't move nor talk correctly, he even couldn't listen well..

The nurse came n gave her paracetamol to help feed her father.. However she scream at her father to wake up, and what worst is when her father refuses to eat and accidentally drop the medicine, she said " call u eat dun wan, then u just have to lye there n die" everyone there was kinda shock with wat happen..

Later on her father couldnt stand up n thus urine on the bed, she was there being really reluctant n half nagging n shouting at her father. When finally settle down, she was there talking on the phone, asking her siblings to be here as she will go no matter they are here or not.. when her siblings came, they were os0 reluctant to stay there, the father this time shouted say " u guys go bak la, here 'zho deng'"

The whole time while i was there, i was thinking how come one can treat ur parents who is sick on the bed like tat.. I was really stunt with that situation, not that i like to stare but i was just having a why question on my head.

Ppl out there, do remember one thing, anything can be choose, but one thing for sure u cant, its ur parents. No matter what they have done, i'm sure its for ur own good in a way, maybe its contradicting with us but its still for our own good. Take care ur parents while u can, as this is the biggest honor u can have in ur life.

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